

God wants to meet with you personally—just you—each and every day.
That thought may amaze you, but consider it for a moment: When you accept Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior, you become a member of God's family, a child of God. You can call God your Father.
Any good parent wants to spend time with his or her children—sometimes with all of them together, but often with each one alone. That is how one person gets to know another person well—by spending time alone with that individual.
The best way to get to know your heavenly Father is to spend time alone with Him. You can do this each day by reading His Word and by talking with Him in prayer.
Listening to God: Reading His Word
"How can a young man keep his way pure? By living according to your word. ... I have hidden your word in my heart that I might not sin against you." —Psalm 119:9,11
After you have finished reading John, you may want to read the book of Acts to see how the early Christians shared their faith with those around them. Sharing your faith is one of the most important things you can do for God.
If you have not read much from the Bible, you may prefer to use a modern version. Ask your pastor or someone at your local Christian bookstore to recommend one.
While you are reading the Bible, meditate on what it says. To meditate simply means to think seriously about spiritual things. It means thinking quietly, soberly and deeply about God—how wonderful He is, what wonderful things He has done for you, what He is going to do for you, and what He wants you to do for Him.
As you read the Bible and meditate, perhaps you will notice:
Don't read too fast or try to finish too much at one time. To begin, a good rule of thumb is to read one chapter a day. Take time to look for all that God has for you in the day's passage. There's no need to rush through your time alone with God.
Talking to God: Prayer
"This is the confidence we have in approaching God: that if we ask anything according to his will, he hears us. And if we know that he hears us—whatever we ask—we know that we have what we asked of him." —1 John 5:14-15
After you have read and meditated awhile in God's Word, talk to Him in prayer. Talk to God as you would to a loving parent who wants the best for you and who wants to help you in every way possible.
You can pray to God any time of the day—driving to work, preparing dinner, washing clothes, studying at school. But you also need to find a time during your day when you can give the Lord your full attention, without any distractions.
Perhaps the morning is best for you—when you are fresh, before your active day begins. Or in the evening—at the close of the day, as you consider the next day's plans and prepare for a good night's rest. Better yet, try to spend some time alone with Him both morning and evening (Psalm 55:17)!
Whatever the time of day, be consistent in your meeting with God. Jesus rose early to pray, and He went somewhere that was quiet (Luke 5:16).
A Prayer Guide
These suggestions may help you know how to start talking to God:
Try listing your prayer requests, so that you don't forget any, and so you can record God's answers. (He may say "yes," or "no," or "wait"!) Keep your list in a small notebook or on 3" x 5" cards—something small enough to fit in your pocket or billfold or purse.
Remember, you can pray to the Lord any time, anywhere, and about anything—to ask for something you need or to thank Him for something you have received. As any loving earthly father would be, God is interested in all that happens to you.
He is looking forward to His time alone with you!
YOUR RESPONSE
God speaks to us through the Bible, and we in turn can speak to Him through prayer. As we carry on this dialogue, we become better acquainted with His glorious promises and blessings. This lesson should make Bible reading and prayer more meaningful.
1. Turn to the following passages in John's gospel, and briefly summarize the statements Jesus made about Himself.
(a) John 6:35
(b) John 8:12
(c) John 10:9
(d) John 11:25-26
2. What does Jesus promise if you keep His commandments? John 14:21
3. What further help is promised in John 14:26?
4. What does Jesus ask you to do in John 13:34-35, and why?
(a) What does He ask you to do? v. 34
(b) Why? v. 35
5. Read John 21:1-6. Describe what happened in verses 3 and 6.
(a) v. 3
(b) v. 6
(c) What important lesson can you learn from these verses?
(d) What similar truth is taught in John 15:5?
6. As a believer, what is now your privilege? John 16:24
7. As you grow in Christ, your faith and confidence will increase, and you will pray with greater assurance. What are you promised in John 15:16?
Final Thought
God, the Holy Spirit, is your teacher, and He uses the Scriptures to teach you. As you continue to read, study and memorize the Scriptures-and pray-Christ will become more real and you will find fulfillment in life.
1. Memorize these verses for Lesson 2. Confidence in Prayer: "This is the confidence we have in approaching God: that if we ask anything according to his will, he hears us. And if we know that he hears us-whatever we ask-we know that we have what we asked of him." -1 John 5:14-15
Victory through God's Word: "How can a young man keep his way pure? By living according to your word. ... I have hidden your word in my heart that I might not sin against you." -Psalm 119:9,11
2. Please continue now to the next lesson, "Obeying Christ."


